March 23, 2010
March 23, 2010
The Rev. Tom Farley, St. Clare Catholic Parish in Portland, of has announced that he is leaving the priesthood of 30 years. He said he could “no longer live the celibate life.” and “I leave because of a private longing in my heart and soul that I have ignored or suppressed to my detriment,” he wrote in the letter.”I love priestly ministry but I cannot live this life of celibacy.”
By Nancy Haught wrote an excellent article in The Oregonian…“Parishioners packed Farley’s last Masses — one Saturday evening and three on Sunday morning. As part of the services, the congregations knelt with him to confess their sins and listened as he preached a brief sermon. After Communion, Farley carried a sheet of paper to the lectern and read:”I want to say how honored I have been to be a fellow disciple with you in the Catholic Church. I am leaving without anger or resentment, not wanting to hurt you or the Church. I do not want to be a poster child for married priests.“
“Farley, who graduated from high school in Corvallis, said he will live in Portland. He drew chuckles when he said he would be looking for a job, “like a real person.” He said he will remain a practicing Catholic. He can still receive the sacraments, but if he chooses to marry in the church, he must go through a process to be released from his vows.
Meanwhile, he said, “I look forward to parish shopping — like you have been able to do.”
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